What does “Talking White” mean?

If you are Black and are in a predominately white space, chances are someone has told you that you “talk white” as a backhanded compliment that you don’t know how to respond to.

Sufficiently Black Podcast
2 min readJun 29, 2021
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Growing up in a predominately white school I remember kids telling me that I “sounded white” and that I didn’t talk “Black” so that made me less Black. I’m not sure if they thought “sounding white” was a compliment. But at a young age, what do you say when you hear this? It oftentimes just left me confused.

“Talking Black” in their mind meant sounding uneducated or ghetto to go along with the stereotype of what it means to be Black. And on the other hand, “talking white” meant that you sounded proper and educated. This stereotype and comment travels with Black people from childhood to adulthood.

Making fun of Black people for sounding different may come from a lack of ignorance around the history of speech in America. As Black people were stolen and brought to a country that did not speak their native tongue, they had to adapt to survive throughout generation. AAVE or African-American Vernacular English was essentially born through African Americans creating their language within the standard English dialect. Something often referred to as “slang” or “ebonics” is now often used among white people to sound “cool.” But oftentimes its those same exact white people who will make fun of you for “talking white.”

In this episode, the Oreos sit down to discuss what exactly it means to “talk white” and the negative implications it has on our culture and society.

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“talking white.”

It was other black people who told me this, a white person has never said this to me
A woman at work told me
"Fred, you know what, If I had never heard your voice over the phone, I would think you were a stuck up white boy"
The black kids called me a "goody two shoes" for being honors classes.

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"A dialect is a language without an army and a navy."--Max Weinreich. That's why AAVE, which has its own distinct grammatical structure, is called a dialect. Same for Haitian Creole, Jamaican "English", Italian and German regional dialects…

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Growing up in a predominately white school I remember kids telling me that I “sounded white” and that I didn’t talk “Black” so that made me less Black.

Most black popular culture you see is from areas of concentrated minority poverty — the hood. It sets expectations that all black people grew up in poverty and speak like a person from a lower social class. When someone says “you talk white” they…

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